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Audio Post: Sex with a friend; yay or nah?

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Hey Shughar,
How are you? I haven’t done this in a while… has been mega busy. Hope you are good though? Please, today I need you to help me settle the issue on ground. I have said my bit, please, type yours. Thank you.

P.S- Ignore my cockroach voice, I was high on the song. lol

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My name is Patrick Jennifer............ Talkative extraordinaire (aspiring OAP), Professional 'carer', Wanna-be writer, and I am sweetness personified.

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  1. artist for hire October 1, 2014 at 11:58 am -  Reply

    Ynay honesty

    • shughar October 1, 2014 at 12:01 pm -  Reply

      I don’t understand this comment

  2. esibobbie September 25, 2014 at 10:26 pm -  Reply

    Matured folks, awesome sex. They always find a way around it. Then personally v tried d FWB thing once, she’s still more than a friend and we both caught feelings, but it’s feelings who says it can’t be handled.

    • shughar September 26, 2014 at 9:02 am -  Reply

      well………………you caught feelings. feelings that you might not be ready for. feelings that might spoil the friendship because they are temp

  3. loner September 24, 2014 at 6:12 pm -  Reply

    U wanted sex n u got it,thats wanting something,most likely u din enjoy it that’s y u guys din go further,or he wanted more n u dint,you guys sha had something close to like,sex din just come in,besides ur case might be 1 in 1000,lol

    • shaiontheprowl June 9, 2015 at 12:24 pm -  Reply

      I am having plenty trouble reconciling myself with this part of your comment, “….u cnt have sex as a girl with a guy if u don’t want more from him”.

      Why can’t a girl have that?
      Only guys can???
      Seriously tho, I see where u went with the hurt thing. However, why is it so impossible to allow that there are babes out there who are jes out to catch fun. No strings attached or whatever. They wanna live, full and fun-filled lives like all guys wanna too.
      I think …..

  4. loner September 24, 2014 at 10:27 am -  Reply

    FWB…..never ends well,u r friends cos u like each other,wen u add sex its simply cos both of u want more,u cnt have sex as a girl with a guy if u don’t want more from him,ul just end up hurt,for the guy its easier,we have sex naturally with without emotions attached but girls have sex with emotions,for me tho,I’ve tried sex without emotions,it din workout,wit emotions was special,that’s me but im very sure other guys can n enjoy it,that’s y men can cheat n still love their wives,I guess women cheat wen they stop loving who they r with…….my opinion tho,great topic,welcome back

    • shughar September 24, 2014 at 12:20 pm -  Reply

      my point exactly!!!!!! you even explained it better than I did…. for guys, its easy. It’s the girls that start catching feelings. Thank you oga loner for welcoming me back 😀

    • @elsieisy September 24, 2014 at 4:34 pm -  Reply

      I have had sex with a guy I totally didn’t want more from. If he had wanted More I would run. Like I said, its not a male or female thing, its vice versa

      • shaiontheprowl June 9, 2015 at 12:25 pm -  Reply


  5. elsieisy September 24, 2014 at 9:05 am -  Reply

    My dear, this matter is deep. it depends on the maturity of both.
    how would i even sleep with some that has a gf sef? and even if i do i then start having expectations? haba na.
    some friendship are just sweet as it is. whatever comes to the table comes. I tell people to live and enjoy this life – now! too much worry over tomorrow complicate things, if we have an awesome friendship that involves sex and he is treating me right i dont mind o

    • shughar September 24, 2014 at 12:18 pm -  Reply

      so the last part of this comment is my best part…….’awesome friendship and treating right’. If it ends that way, then it is brilliant. walai!!!! I think I worry too much true true…i have to learn how to stop doing that. Thanks hunnay

      • shaiontheprowl June 9, 2015 at 12:27 pm -  Reply

        Worrying is part of life.

        How come I jes stumbled upon this post of all rainy days? Chai!!!

        All my female friends ….in turobul!

        • shughar June 9, 2015 at 12:35 pm -  Reply

          let me reserve my comment

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